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  • AllIsNice 10:42 am on April 2, 2021 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: #actionreaction, #balancingactofkarma, #fabricoflife, #karmicbalance, #vaseoflife   

    The Vase of Life and the balancing act of karma 

    Balancing act of karma

    We all would be having or have had a vase in our house. A good old vase sitting pretty in our hall or our living room or our bed room. We all have at some point or the other by intention or not, ended up toppling that vase. Our immediate reaction is oopsy and we put it back in its place in a jiffy. We have a innate urge that the vase needs to be back in its place. We dont keep it lying there toppled, we want it back in order. Just like the vase, our lives have a natural order. Every living being stands in life in his or her own order, his or her own place.

    Depending on our circle of influence or control, we tend to impact each others lives. Just like the vase, we impact the vases of others’ lives through our actions and deeds. We may with or without our intent, end up moving or toppling hundreds or thousands of vases in our lifetime. When the inanimate vase can create a reaction within us to our action of toppling it, so can our action towards other living beings create many reactions within and around us. This culmination of actions and reactions is known as our karma.

    Out act of toppling the vase is our action and the act of setting it back right is the balancing act. This is the basis of karma, that when our actions create an imbalance in our being and that of others, we need to have an strong urge to do the balancing act as well. We can’t silence that urge, we can’t bury it for eternity, it can’t be managed unless there is a genuine intention and commitment to balance it. The vase of life can’t be toppled and be left there, it has to be set right. We don’t say let it lye there, or that it can be put back later at our convenience. We don’t say let someone else set it right either. We put it back ourselves immediately. In the same manner, unbalanced karma should not be accrued and kept unaddressed for a covenient future. The vase has got into a position where it cannot get upright by itself. Nor can we expect to pass the buck and think, I will get someone else to balance my karma, you have to set the vase right yourself. Unless we do that, our karma will create an strong urge for rebalance in ourselves and others, and affect our existence. Even science has established that action and reaction is a fundamental reality of our existence. Irrespective if you are large or small, high and mighty, the same rules of existence apply. You can create an exception for yourself, but it will not sustain. Whether you throw a small stone or a huge boulder upwards, the forces acting on it will be proportional and it will come back to its place on earth in a state of balance. Science also says that the reaction to an action is not just equal to balance it, but it is also immediate. When you punch a punching bag or fire a gun, the kickback is immediate, the reaction doesnt happen later at our convenience. This is to remind us that same applies to accumulated unbalanced karma. It needs to be balanced at the earliest to prevent ripples or suffering in our existential fabric.

    We often tend to expect differential treatment from karma. When it comes to us, bearing the fruit of karma is an impatient and reckless exercise, but when it comes to the balancing part we either try to wash our hands off it or procrastinate. When we see a flower bud in the vase that carries with it a potential to be a flower rich in fragrance, we can’t even wait for it to bloom. We want to pluck it even before its able to spread its petals and become a flower in full bloom. In our impatience and ignorance, we may even uproot it early or stunt its growth by stopping its nurturance. We forget that we need to continue to nurture it or nourish it in whatever way we can. Cursing the flower for not bringing you fragrance yet will only cause it to decay and that will be the smell you will have to bear later. Let alone offer its fragrance to you, the poor flower hadn’t even got to know of having a potential for rich fragrance itself. So karma is never-the-less doing the act of nurturance with patience, so that the flower when it blooms, will spread its fragrance to you and the world around. That will be its karmic balancing act for the nurturance that you offered in its early life. And if you are used to breaking vases out of your greed or resentment, again and again causing great suffering to the flowers in a delicate phase of its life, the time is ripe for you to start mending your ways and tending them with sincere intent and commitment to balance the karmic imbalance that you have created, irrespective of whether the flower gives you its fragrance or not. This process of balancing can be tougher than the process of creating an imbalance. Like toppling a vase just needs a small push, while to set it right  you need to hold it, put it back together, and set it back where it belongs. Balancing may also take your time and resources, but for some reason we tend to spend these more for creating imbalance in our lives and that of others, and when it comes to rebalancing our karma, we do not want to put the effort nor the resources, and wish that things would just rebalance by itself. But the reality is neither the toppled vase nor the half withered flower can get back without the external support from those who toppled or let it decay in the first place. But as we discussed earlier, if we have created an imbalance, it is we who have to rebalance our karma. If we feel this is being unfair,  then we should have been more careful while the imbalance was getting created by our actions in the first place. So if your intent can lead to karmic imbalance, commit beforehand that just like I will do whatever I have to to further this cause or intent, I commit to do whatever it takes to restore the balance. And make that commitment in presence of the  people who may be affected so that they do not suffer trying to comprehend the imbalance created. And if you cannot communicate your intent or commitment, then it is better you reassess it and go ahead only if you can communicate it. An intent and commitment that is not communicated or cannot be communicated is a recipe for disaster when it comes to karmic imbalances and can have far reaching impact on our lives. This is because not being able to communicate imdicates your intent is questionable and will not withstand a discussion, or that you want to take the risk but when it comes to the commitment to rebalance your karma, you want to keep the door open to escape if things go wrong or not as per your expectation with the karmic imbalance you created.

    Repeated abuse and exploitation of our position as a superior species in this world, be it of the environment or the lives of other beings and species that coexist with us, has created unpreceedented karmic imbalance. And there may be possible ramnifications of unimaginable proportions as the karmic balance of the world gets restored sooner or later. As we are getting to realise that there is a strong prevalence of this ultimate design at the core of our existence, we need to accept the realities when we can, imbibe them in our decisions and actions, moderate the extremist karmic imbalances that we set into motion and aid the process of rebalancing. The sooner that the human civilisation acknowledges it and embraces it, the greater will be its progress in the ages to come.

     
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    1. The Close or Intimate friend: What are Friends for. Yes to be around or be of help when you need the most. Many of us are fortunate to have close or intimate friends in our life. They might offer emotional, financial or physical support to us from time to time in our lives making them an important part of our lives. And we inturn feel indebted to such friends and reciprocate when we can. Such friendships are very close to our heart and we put every effort in ensuring they stay so. But remember to differentiate a reciprocal friendship that is in exchange of a benefit or advantage vis-à-vis a close or intimate friend. If the friend has taken a credit from you or has a benefit of being around you, then the nature of the friendship should be clear, and that neither of You are in a close or intimate friend relationship unless you put real efforts to face the reality of your friendship and get it right through mutual engagements
    1. The ‘Always Right’ friend: There are friends who feel that they are always right. The ‘Always Right’ friend may glorify his/her approach or achievements and make you feel belittled and that they are the gateway to your success; which in reality will never happen through them or because of what they did. You should clarify to the ‘Always Right’ friend that this may be good or right in his/her reality but you are a different person, have different ethical beliefs, live in a different reality and are in a different situation. That they saw what you did and how you managed to get bailed out of a difficult situation may itself look like a risky or unethical proposition to them. Explain that What he/she feels is a necessity or the right thing, may be very wrong in your point of view. What you have gone through or that friend has gone through is different so he/she needs to acknowledge each-others differences.
    1. The Sly friend: The sly friend is the one who has one personality on the surface but thinks or does something. Or he/she may say or portray one thing but behind your back may behave or do another thing. Sly friends in an extreme case may even go to the extent of believing they are your friend and can influence your life though they are neither in touch with you physically or virtually, nor in their friend list but knew you at one point of time. Such friends may also do things behind the curtains without discussing or taking your view. Once may be inadvertent or a mistake, but if you find that your friend is being sly time and again, then please clarify to him/her that this is not acceptable and if he/she repeats it then you should take a call on the friendship. The extreme ones who are not even your real friends today need to be indicated in a subtle manner that they need to make amends for what they have been doing and they have no right to exert control on your life till the time they can face you, discuss with you and be your real friend. Also beware that if sly friends appear to be habitual or it seems to be in their nature to be sly, they may stab you in the back at an opportune time for their own benefit.
    1. The Deceitful/Jealous friend: Like it or not, at some points of time or the other, we may come across deceitful/jealous friends. We ourselves may be deceitful/jealous of some of our friends at times. Friendship is a complex and emotional process and if you are being reckless with your friends and the relationship with them, then you may end up deceiving them. It may cost your friendship but you may also end up mending it. One may have deceived a friend but you may not be deceitful at heart. But if a Friend is being deceitful again and again, or doing things behind your back, intentionally/unintentionally putting you in difficult situations and found treading on the non-compromisables of friendship, then the friend is indeed deceitful/jealous and the earlier you express to your friend that it is not working out because of the same, the better it is for either to prevent heartaches or trouble later
    1. The Casual friend: The Casual friend as the name suggests is in friendship for casual purposes. Casual friends may be good to have depending on what you expect of the friendship. Casual friendships are transactional but either should be clear that it’s a casual friendship and agree that either would not want to get into anything serious. The casual friendship should be time bound, if you find that you agreed to a casual friendship but are being friends beyond, then it is better to take a call. Discuss early that this is where we agreed it would end, rather then let it prolong, leaving the friend assuming that you are his/her close or intimate friend.
    1. The ‘Brute Force’ friend: There is a concept in computer hacking called Brute-force approach where in you try to crack a password/encryption by trying all possible random permutations and combinations till the right password is found. This is known as a costly and theoretically improbable process for cracking stronger passwords/encryptions. Brute-force friends believe in getting you to do something come what may. Irrespective of how much time or cost it takes for him/her or You. Brute force friends may also manipulate you into getting into what they want. They may make promises to themselves or others without even taking you into consideration in the discussion or understanding your life-stage needs. As soon as you realise that you have a brute-force friend, clarify to your friend that he/she needs to let you be and everyone has the right to live life their own way. And if there is anything that you would agree with them for or compromise your stand for, then express your term/condition or the deal that you expect; stating that this is what I will need in order to do what you expect from me, and draw the line there.
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    1. The ‘Service exchange’ friend: Just like a currency exchange allows you to deposit one currency in exchange for another currency of equivalent amount, the Service exchange friend believes that friendship is an exchange of services. It’s a give and take of one thing with another. Like for example a service exchange friend may help you in your studies in exchange for a treat. Friends often do this, but with a service exchange friend this is not one-off. This is how they look at your friendship more often than not. There are various categories of service exchange friends and some may even feel that they can exchange anything for anything they feel like without the need for any discussion with you.

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    Independence in the new Age 

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    Scientific studies have established that cats can hear upto 5 times farther in terms of distance than a human, dogs can hear upto 4 times farther than a human while monkeys can hear a couple of times farther than a human. It means that millions of years of evolution has established that it is wiser for man to hear within certain boundaries. Wonder why. May be the repercussions of hearing beyond were counterproductive to the human civilization. May be man was smart enough to mind his own business and could survive without sharp hearing. May be man became smarter as he focused on his own life within his four walls while his evolutionary counterparts continued to be nosy …. or may be that he just started respecting the independence of others beings in the ecosystem … we can’t be sure.

    Today technology and digital media enable the fickle man to know, hear, see and be far beyond himself. There have been many repercussions of technology and scientific advances in the recent history. One need not even mention it; it is out there for all those wise enough to see and comprehend. Whether it be for the individual or for the society, the outcomes seem to be bittersweet. But it seems man has chosen to accept them and live with it, believing that it is what will continue to bring him what he desires. May be man feels he is in control and knows what he is doing. Or may be today we believe that armed with scientific knowhow, information and technology; we are the smartest to ever roam the face of the earth. May be man is setting aside incidents captured in the pages of history and ancient scriptures believing that he is too advanced and superior for that. By doing so, man may be undermining the experience and wisdom of generations of our ancestors; whose tolerance, sacrifice, hard work, righteousness and struggle made us smart, capable and independent today. Least that man could do is to be mindful of and respect what they left behind; the culture, the resources, the traditions, the values, the scriptures, the history … the independence.

    In any case it would be advisable for man to tread with care. He needs to be humble to himself, to other beings and to the entire ecosystem while he aspires in going from good to great. More so, as providence with its slow and steady accomplice – the age old ‘evolution’, watches on and smiles upon us as we venture into unchartered territories; as if to say … your independence in this world came at a cost ….

    So don’t just wish it but live by it …. Happy Independence Day !